Thursday, January 24, 2008

Arrogance vs. Confidence

I never used to think of myself as arrogant. Certainly, I know what I know and have no doubts about it - afterall if you didn't think you were right, you wouldn't think it would you?. But arrogant? Moi?

Not too long ago, I was visiting my sister in sunny California (yes, my luck held out and the 8 month long dry season ended while I was there...) and we stopped by a typically trendy drinking establishment. Feeling self-deprecating, I ordered an "Arrogant Bastard" - a delightfully poignant brew with a good hoppy finish. To my dismay, my sister, my wife and even the waitress made noises of approval! I can understand my wife and sister (two separate people, don't let your WV tenancies show) doing that, but for a waitress...!!

Haven't been able to shake that encounter... been dwelling on it on and off for a few months... Am I really that arrogant, or do people just have a problem with my confidence? Such thoughts naturally lead me to ponder the difference between arrogance and confidence.

Dictionary differences aside (arrogance, confidence) I have come to the following conclusion: Arrogance is when someone thinks you think you're better than they are while confidence is when they agree with you. All in the eye of the beholder, you see? Am I to be blamed for being arrogant, or praised for being confident? Strange is it not, that you can be over confident but not over arrogant?

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